Not yet sold on the circles

by Jay on November 13, 2011

Is Google+ worth the effort?

Is it just me?

To be honest with you, I have not been a very good social media disciple of the Google social media platform, Google+. When the service was first rolled out, being a social media fanatic, I just couldn’t wait to try the new “Facebook killer” that all of the top gurus in the field Google Plus Logo 150x150 Not yet sold on the circleswere so wild about.

Just as I did when gmail was released, I rushed to ebay and paid $1 for an invite. I know…dumb. icon smile Not yet sold on the circles

My initial thoughts

At first I tried to play around with it and get as many people into my google circles as possible. Plus, I thought it was pretty awesome that you could get the top people in the field like Chris Brogan in your circle. It almost made you feel like you were friends.

I’ve stalled on the +

After a while, I virtually abandoned my new google+ friends. I found myself not checking in very often, and participating very little.

Although people were still adding me at a quick rate to their circles, I wasn’t using the service myself very often. I found it very difficult to justify spending time on google+ than on the more traditional services like Facebook and Twitter.

What to do

I really do like the platform of Google+ and find the idea of the circles very intriguing. It is cool to be able to separate your friends and easily decide which circle sees which types of posts. I also very much enjoy not seeing the farmville and mafia wars posts that so plague Facebook. I think I am going to make a more concerted effort to become more social on Google+ and see how it goes.

And you?

Do you use this service? Are you using it successfully, or just letting it sit like I have been? I’d love to hear your thought and ideas in the comments section below.

If you haven’t signed up for Google+, check it out and please feel free to add me to your circle!

 

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You should opt-in

by Jay on November 9, 2011

Are opt-in forms on a personal blog important? Or do you just find them annoying? I have to say that I answer yes to both questions. screenshot 22 300x285 You should opt inYou probably have noticed that when you visit my blog, you are greeted with this cute lime green pop-up window that implores you to sign up for my email list. It’s cute, right?

Jay…those forms are sooo irritating!

I agree that they certainly can be annoying. The great thing is that if you don’t want to see it, there is a little X in the corner that will get rid of it.

I’m really not trying to bother my readers on this site. Really mom…I’m not! icon smile You should opt in

Why then?

Personally, I have tried to research this topic a little online and have asked other bloggers that have higher readership levels that I do at this point. Most think that it is a good idea.

And I agree. If you like my blog, I hope that you wouldn’t mind receiving an email so that I can interact with you that way as well. Most of the time that email will contain a link to my newest posts that I think you are sure to find interesting.

Most of the time on this blog, I write posts that I hope are informative to you all and that you might glean useful information to use on your own blogs.

It makes me extremely happy to get a notification that someone has signed up to receive my posts and messages in their inbox. I appreciate all of you.

My final thoughts…

If you have a blog and you want to build your subscriber base, give these forms a try. After all, we write so that others may enjoy what we have to say or find something useful that they may implement in their own social media world. There are many services that you can use to get started. Below are a few of the top services:

Aweber
Mail Chimp
IContact

 

I have personally tried these three. There are other great services for email marketing out there. I used mail chimp for a while and very much liked the easy user interface…and the monkey is cute. I ended up going with aweber though. Although it has a user interface that is a bit less friendly and there is perhaps a higher learning curve, I feel like in the long-run it will offer me the most opportunities.

So what do you think?

I’d love to hear what you think about these forms and your experiences with any of these services.

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Watch your image with Google Alerts

by Jay on November 3, 2011

Don’t waste your time!Red attention Watch your image with Google Alerts

Being social is a lot of work! Don’t get me wrong, it is fun work, but work nonetheless. It is important to constantly think of your online audience and what they might want to know about, or find interesting.

You might check-in places on facebook, yelp, gowalla, foursquare, etc. Some might consider it the stalker’s dream come true. So while it is fun, do be a little careful while you are at it.

One of the worst things that you can do is to spend your precious and valuable time cultivating an online image for yourself only to have it destroyed  by the photos that your ex-husband just posted of you online from your honeymoon. They say any PR is good PR, but I don’t buy into that.

What’s a blogger to do?

There are many resources available for bloggers and writers to use that cost you nothing to use. Really you might say? Oh yea….free of charge. And aren’t those the best kind of tools to use?

One of my favorites, and easiest to use, is Google Alerts. Most of us these days are already using some form of “The Google” in our daily lives. We are using gmail, google apps, google maps, you name it! The sky is the limit. Soon we will probably be paid in some sort of GMoney.

Setting up an alert on Google Alerts is very easy and extremely important to do. google 300x146 Watch your image with Google Alerts

 Follow these simple instructions:

1. Type something into the input field (i.e. your name)

2. Then select the options that you wish. I suggest leaving the default options.

3. Enter your email address.

Now sit back and wait for a daily report of who is talking about you.

You will need to play around with the search parameters until you find what will work best for you. For example, I have it search “Lesson In Humility” since it is the title of my blog. Well, as you can imagine, a lot of people use that phrase on a daily basis, so that alert isn’t very useful for me. You might start with your name and see how that goes.

Remember this is just one of many tools made available to all of us online. Keep your online presence focused on what you want, not what others might put out there.

If you liked this tip, please consider signing up for my newsletter. The signup box is in the top right hand corner under the header.

Have a fantastic day!

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Are you writing for the dead?

by Jay on October 31, 2011

First of all….Happy Halloween!

Sometimes as a blogger, you feel like you are spending all of this time to create zombie 300x233 Are you writing for the dead? great content, yet it feels that only your mom and dad are reading…and even they aren’t leaving comments!

What do I do to get a little blog love?

If you browse some of the top websites that focus on blogging or social media, they list several ideas: leave comments on other blogs that pertain to your niche, tweet the heck out of your posts, cross-post on facebook, etc.  Check sites like mashable.

Final advice?

Don’t fret. It is likely that more people are reading than you realize. And beg mom and dad for a comment here or there!

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Facebook can make your head explode

by Jay on October 30, 2011

Facebook by Balakov2 257x300 Facebook can make your head explodeThe title says it all, doesn’t it? There are days when you just don’t care that your so-called friends are taking a shower or getting ready to eat dinner. Have we all become so narcissistic that we think there are people out there that want to track our every move?

Do I need to know that you just got a new fish in your aquarium?

 

I will be the bearer of bad news…most of us don’t really care. Let’s face it, if your crops die in farmville because you didn’t harvest them soon enough, I think we will survive.

If you love playing mafia wars on facebook, perhaps that is a piece of knowledge best kept to yourself.

What is a boy to do when he doesn’t care about the mundane posts, but also doesn’t want to be rude?

 

There is a tactful way to tell someone that the fact that you have diarrhea really isn’t any of our business.  Don’t worry…help is on the way!

Make life easier and don’t be confrontational with your internet friends

 

My best piece of advice when you are getting facebook fatigue is to do a clean-up of your list. Facebook makes this extremely easy.

Just hide all of the updates in your news feed from the chronic offenders. screenshot 111 Facebook can make your head explode

 

It couldn’t be easier. Right beside a post that the regular offender put updated to facebook, you will see an arrow if you hover in the right corner. Click that arrow and highlight “unsubscribe from status updates.”

This is genius by facebook. It gives us a way to not to have read the consistency mundane updates, but also not let the user that we have hidden them.

So do yourself a favor, and get to work unsubscribing. You will still be friends with the person and can check their profile page when you want to know what is up, but you won’t be bothered with the information that they got sick to their stomachs from eating too much Mexican food.

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I’ve just begun my little adventure into the world of social media. Although I have actually blogged for about 3  years on various sites and platforms, I’ve had a facebook page for a while, I’ve been creating videos for years, I feel like I’m starting all over again.

What do I do?

I think that the best way to learn more about social media is to experiment with
amys1 You need help: Social media experts to the rescue it. With twitter, facebook, forsquare, gowalla, yelp, etc., your mind could just explode. But have fun with it!

But I need help Jay!

Don’t we all? There are a few sites that I regularly check and that I subscribe to their RSS. My favorite social media site is by a Columbus phenomena, Amy Schmittauer from Savvy Sexy Social.

Sure her site is pretty, and you might think her target audience is female, but you would be wrong. Don’t despair guys….she has TONS of information on all facets of social media. She is a true expert and you would be very smart to start following this superstar.

Make sure you check out her videos, she is amazing. And be very sure to get on her mailing list for her knowledge to land right in your inbox.

Believe me,  you will love her!

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About me

by Jay on October 18, 2011

Having a little trouble deciding on a topic to write about, I ran across this fun idea on a website and thought I would give it a try. It is all about me…one of my favorite subjects.

1. If you could build a house anywhere, where would it be? On the gulf coast of the Yucatan Peninsula.

2.What is your favorite article of clothing? Polo shirts.

3. Last C.D. you bought? Wow…i’m not sure. I usually buy individual songs from iTunes.

4. Where is your favorite place to be? Relaxing at home with my animals.

5. Least favorite place to be? Anywhere with people that I do not care for.

6. Are you strongest in mind or body? Definitively mind.

7. What time do you wake up? I wake up at 5:45 in the morning. icon smile About me I am so not a morning person either.

8. Favorite kitchen appliance? Dishwasher.

9. What instrument would you like to play? Piano.

10. Favorite color? Brown.

11. Sports car of SUV? Sports car for sure.

12. Favorite children’s book? I didn’t really enjoy reading until I became an adult.

13. Favorite season? Fall.

14. Least favorite chore? Cleaning up the messes that my animals sometimes make.

15. Favorite day? It’s always been Friday.

16. Favorite food? Good Mexican food.

17. Favorite drink? Mellow Yellow.

18. Favorite word? Mariposa. I’ve always liked that Spanish word.

19. Favorite inspirational book? To Kill a Mockingbird.

20. Who would you like to play you in the movie of you life? Charlie Sheen.

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What happened to educational TV?

by Jay on October 16, 2011

Is it just me or can we never escape reality tv? Growing up, there were always some examples of this “genre” but in the last decade itno tv  by gnato 191x300 What happened to educational TV? seems to have taken over.

In the old days, reality tv existed in shows like Candid Camera, America’s Funniest Home Videos, or game shows like The Newlywed Game.

In my opinion, things began to change with the advent of the phenomena COPS. This is the first time that I can recall watching television to witness the lives of the trashy among us. How many of us tuned in each week to see the wife beaters, drug injectors, and the prostitutes all while singing along to the theme song Bad Boys by Inner Circle?

That show was bad enough! But my question is this…Why must we be subjugated to this trash on channels that used to be educational?

If you have flipped the channel to TLC, no doubt you were as shocked as I was. Jon and Kate Plus 8 was bad enough, but check out some of their new goodies:

19 Kids and Counting

Little People, Big World

My Strange Addiction

Freaky Eaters

The Little Couple

Strange Sex

I Didn’t Know I Was Pregnant

Now the History Channel is trying to catch up. Typically when you turn on this channel, you will find them showing some type of show on Hitler, but if on the off chance you catch another topic, you might find some of these goodies:

Hairy Bikers

Ancient Aliens

Ice Road Truckers

MonsterQuest

Only In America With Larry The Cable Guy

Pawn Stars

Sex In the Ancient World

Swamp People

UFO Hunters

I’ve been watching the History Channel today and have learned quite a bit. Did you know that the ancient Maya bred with aliens which allowed them to build the pyramids? How about that King Tut and his sister were aliens? Or that the ark of the covenant was really some type of alien weapon?

I guess if you want your kids today not to have their brains sucked out by reality television and replaced with mush, you better spend more time at the library!

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Schools should be rocking social media

by Jay on October 9, 2011

It should not be a surprise to anyone that our teens always stay connected. According to the Pew Research Center, 83% of adults in theschool 300x224 Schools should be rocking social media United States have some type of cellular device, be it a smart phone or a traditional cell phone. As an educator, I contend that the number of teens with cell phones is not much less. In fact, parents often buy their children cell phones so that they can be in constant contact.

According to the Kaiser Family Foundation, the amount of time teens are spending online is increasing rapidly.

Today, 8-18 year-olds devote an average of 7 hours and 38 minutes (7:38) to using entertainment media across a typical day (more than 53 hours a week).  And because they spend so much of that time ‘media multitasking’ (using more than one medium at a time), they actually manage to pack a total of 10 hours and 45 minutes (10:45) worth of media content into those 7½ hours.

In other words, teens are spending more hours staying connected than there parents are spending at work each week.

One trend that I have personally noticed among students this year is the proliferation of twitter amongst their peer groups. As recently as last year, it was common for students to say things like, “I don’t like twitter. It’s boring. I use facebook.”

Boy have things changed. Twitter is quickly becoming the new facebook for our youth. They crave the constant feedback that a service like twitter provides.

This should really come as no surprise. As late as last year, MSNBC reported that teens were sending approximately 3, 339 text messages each month.

In the mind of a teen, twitter is the ultimate group text messaging service. They post what they once would via text to a friend, but with twitter they send it out to a mass audience and receive instant feedback in the form of replies or retweets.

As most of us know, schools have traditionally been the last to jump on the new bandwagon. Not only do they typically not embrace new technologies, they often attempt to impede their usage. Most still try hard to confiscate cell phones and are still fighting the battle to not let students wear hats in school. Now that’s a silly and antiquated rule.

It is my contention that schools should be embracing these various platforms of social media and utilizing them, at least for communication purposes.

With so many of our youth on sites like facebook and twitter, why not use these tools to communicate with our students concerning announcements, reminders of games, or information on the upcoming school play? So many teens have smart phones that this would be a much more effective means to communicate such information than by simply reading the school announcements every morning.

I believe wholeheartedly that it is time for schools to move into the 21st century and prepare our students for the tools and technologies that they must master to be successful in this new world.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave a comment.

Next post…how to use social media as a tool in the classroom.

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